| Location | Lowestoft |
| Age | 58 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 08/02/1949 |
| Date of Death | 19/01/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,933 since 15/02/2008 |
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David finally lost his battle against Non hodgkinsons Lymphoma which had relapsed for the 3rd time
in five years. He fought against it all the way and kept smiling to the end, never letting on what
he was really feeling, (to protect us we are sure). We never told him he was dying, and he never
asked,but he probably knew. Not once did he say "why me" However, this time round it was one
complication after another, and several times we nearly lost him, but he was such a fighter and
just about pulled through, but in the end his body could take no more. He died at home with us,
which is where he wanted to be. As he took his last breath he told us he loved us all , and a single
tear rolled down his cheek.
David was hoping to take early retirement at 60. He had worked hard all his life and now what should
have been his time to slow down and enjoy, has been cruelly snatched away from him. He went back to
work full time each time he went into remission, determined not to let this thing beat him. We
still had so much to do together. Every day is a constant reminder that he isn't here. We keep
expecting him to walk through the door and miss him so very much.
At David's funeral, the church was full to the brim, which is a testemonial to how well liked he
was, and the sun shone so warm and brightly for February.
David was quite a character, depending on what day of the week it was - Mischievious, funny, grumpy,
saucy, mad, loud, and more, which was why everybody liked him. He had a great sense of humour. He
loved us, his family, we know, but he loved being out with "the lads" as well. He would help anybody
in trouble if he could.
David, Thank you for the 25 years that we were together -At least we just made it to our silver
wedding anniversary. I don't know how I will get through the next 25, but I do know that I will
love you forever and a day, as long as I live. Sail away Dave, my darling husband, my soulmate -
Sail away honey, until we meet again.
Lesley xxxxxxxxxxxxx
PS - To all passers by - Please light a candle for David - Thank you x Also for my Mum, Jo Clarke
Hello David
I am staying up late thinking of you. I just looked at the last photo of you. So ill you looked. I can see now that you knew it was over. You were sitting in your chair, the chair that is now my chair where I sit each night. I could not bear to see it empty. I have just ordered 2 new angels for your grave Someone stole the others. Well. good luck to them, their turn will come! I won't let it get to me. I view things so differently now. Well my darling, I shall climb the stairs to my lonely bed, where your t-shirt is still under my pillow - never to be washed again. I'll treasure it for ever. Nite nite honey xxxxxxxx
Hello sweetheart.
I am missing you so much today. I came across your shoes in the cupboard, The laces tied just as you left them. I hugged them so close. Unless people have been through it, they dont understand how long it takes to mend a broken heart. On the outside, I am back to my old self. I smile, have a laugh, be my usual smutty cheeky self. - but inside, I am still numb,hurting, in limbo and feeling so alone. I turn the key in the lock at night, and the silence is deafening. Thank goodness for the dogs. I was going to move to a bungalow next year, but today I have decided to stay, even though the house is far too big for me. So much of you is still here. Your clothes still hang in the wardrobe, your tools in the garage. The rooms you decorated, and the bushes you planted in the garden. So many memories. I am not ready to leave you behind yet my darling. The vulcan flew over at the air show today. You would have liked to see it. Still, maybe you did. I still love and miss you so much Dave, I need to be near you. I will bring you some flowers I bought today. See you in a minute my darling.
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ANOTHER VALENTINES DAY WITHOUT YOU BABE,
I CANT BELIEVE I AM NOW BUYING YOU ROSES, HOPE YOU LIKE THEM. LOVE YOU ALWAYS MY DARLING,
LESLEY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Happy Birthday David,
If only you could be here to celebrate it,
the one you were counting down the months to,
the one that meant you could slow down and take it easy, the one that meant we could take stock and plan the rest of our lives together and do all the things we wanted to do but didn't have time to do before.
How can I do all this things on my own? They mean nothing without you by my side. They will stay dreams
that will never now happen. I love you David Gray, God bless darling, wherever you are xxxxxxx
My darling husband, I am missing you as much as ever. A whole year has passed since that day you wer taken from us. I have struggled through this year getting over birthdays, Christmas and now the first anniversary, where do I go from now? I had not thought beyond this time. I know you won't be coming back darling, but I live in hope for a sign. Just to know you are ok. I love you David Gray. Your beautifil grand daughter is now ten months - you would have spoilt her so. I have to go on living without you, for the children, ther's only me now,but it's so hard. oh how I wish our parents were alive. At least you're with them now. I still go to the cemetary most days - cant help it - I need to be near you. Hope you like your headstone.
Well my darling, I am going to bed now, visit me if you can. Love you always David, your wife, Lesley xxxx
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This Tribute Is For This Weekend
Candles will be lit on Sunday and a bit hit & miss
My computer is running very slow at the moment
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God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
And whispered "Come to Me".
With tearful eyes we watched you,
We watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
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Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.
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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
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Recipe for Christmas All Year Long
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Take a heap of child-like wonder
That opens up our eyes
To the unexpected gifts in life—
Each day a sweet surprise.
Mix in fond appreciation
For the people whom we know;
Like festive Christmas candles,
Each one has a special glow.
Add some giggles and some laughter,
A dash of Christmas food,
(Amazing how a piece of pie
Improves our attitude!)
Stir it all with human kindness;
Wrap it up in love and peace,
Decorate with optimism, and
Our joy will never cease.
If we use this healthy recipe,
We know we will remember
To be in the Christmas spirit,
Even when it's not December.
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As Christmas time approaches
We miss you more and more
Memories of past Yule times
We always will adore
We still hang the decorations
Put the lights upon the tree
We hang the cards upon the wall
This one's for you, you see
Even though you are not here
You're always in our hearts
So we remember you this Christmas
While we're temporarily apart.
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I've set your place at the table
Your presents wrapped under the tree
Christmas carols playing
But you're not here with me
It seems harder this time of year
I miss you so much more
The only thing that gets me through
Are the memories of before
So here's a card just for you
To show how much I care
I know your waiting with the angels
One day I'll see you there.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
A CHRISTMAS PRAYER
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As we draw to the end of another year,
We think of the ones that we hold so dear;
We pause to give thanks for our friends so true,
And ask God to bless them, the old and new.
We hold up each loved one before His Throne
And ask Him to comfort the ones alone;
For those who have lost someone they hold dear,
We ask Him to strengthen and hold them near.
For those who have prospered, with new joys to savour,
We ask God continues to show them His favour.
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And those with new babies, or newly wed,
We ask Him to smooth out the path ahead;
For those who are ill and can barely stand,
We ask for the touch of His healing hand.
For those with new homes, with new jobs and new stress,
We ask Him to crown all their plans with success.
For those who have dreams and think, 'It's now or never,'
We ask Him to bless all that they should endeavour .
For those who are facing an uphill climb,
We ask Him to carry them through this time.
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As we come to the start of a brand new year,
We pray for the ones that we hold so dear.
We ask that each one will be soundly blest,
To taste of His goodness and know His best;
For angels to watch o'er them day and night,
For miracles, blessings and sheer delight!
We ask for the gifts that the world can't buy:
A glimpse at the wonders of Heaven on high,
Contentment and joy till the Lord comes again,
This we ask for our friends, in His Name, Amen.
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I wish you and your family a very happy Christmas
And a happy new year 2009 love Brenda xxxxx
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This Tribute Is For This Weekend A Little Longer Than Usual. Sorry It's So Early I've Got A Busy Weekend Ahead
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I will light my candles as usual on Sunday
Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part.
To help us feel we're with them still
And soothe a grieving heart.
Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind.
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.
When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you.
And each time that you think of me
I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand.
If tears could build a stairway,
And memories were a lane,
We would walk right up to heaven
And bring you back again.
Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one can ever know.
But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more.
To remember all the happy times,
Life still has much in store.
Since you'll never be forgotten,
We pledge to you today:
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you'll always stay.
A million times we've needed you,
A million times we've cried.
If love could have saved you,
You never would have died.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.
In our hearts you hold a place
No one will ever fill.
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn't go alone.
Part of us went with you
The day God took you home.
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
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